They always say, “You’ll meet someone when you aren’t looking”. It’s true! When you do, take a chance! You might be happy with what you find in them. You might be so happy that you feel fortunate just for meeting them. If you hit it off, go with it!
When someone has the same scars that you do, and you have both been unlucky in love, that’s a signal. Get yourself together, be careful, and take a chance. What do you have to lose?